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Dr. John Gottman calls bids for connection the small, everyday moments that build or break a relationship. A shared laugh, a gentle touch, even a simple question or pointing out a bird. These are all ways we seek connection with our partners. The key? How we respond. Turning toward bids strengthens trust and intimacy, while turning away can create distance over time. Want to learn how to recognize and respond to bids for connection? Watch the full video on our youtube channel. https://youtu.be/o
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Dr. John Gottman describes trust as being built in “sliding door” moments, those everyday decisions where you choose to turn toward your partner or pull away. In a healthy, supportive relationship, partners choose each other every day, fostering love and intentionally nurturing their connection. This foundation is a key pillar of The Gottman Institute’s Sound Relationship House. What does commitment mean to you? ⁠ https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-does-trust-and-commitment-look-like-in-a-relatio
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In this clip, Dr. John Gottman explains that it’s not really about having too many bids for connection. The real problem is when only one person’s bids seem to count. Your needs matter just as much as your partner’s. “Can we talk for a few minutes?” is a bid. “Can you sit with me?” is a bid. “I need 30 minutes to myself” is a bid too. You’re allowed to ask for connection. You’re allowed to ask for space. Both are valid, and both deserve to be heard. | The Gottman Institute
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Dr. John Gottman explains why he avoids the term "toxic relationships." Instead of labels, he emphasizes identifying specific challenges and finding constructive ways to address them. While some relationships may require immediate intervention, many thrive when couples understand root issues and apply proven methods for connection and repair. Looking for more guidance? Visit gottman.com to explore our blog, filled with articles on all types of relationships. This post is not intended to address
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