"I’m Only Joking": The Narcissist’s Excuse for CrueltyWhen a narcissist insults, shames, or humiliates you, they often follow it with, “I’m only joking.” But they’re not joking—they’re testing your boundaries. Each time you let it slide, they push a little further, seeing how much you will tolerate.This tactic is not about humour; it’s about control. They want to make you question your own feelings, to wonder if you’re being too sensitive or overreacting. By dismissing their behaviour as a joke,

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